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would like to invite Jane Austen, my aunty Mrs Misri, a friend Tenzin nangsyal and ace choreographer-cum-director Farah khan. Jane Austen the English novelist whose romantic fiction are social commentaries laced with biting criticism. What attracts me to Jane Austen are the plots of her work which are comic in nature but highlight the dependence of women on marriage to secure a social standing. This interesting a phase in a girl’s life is something that I have been through. The importance of getting married to the right guy of some social standing can not be undermined in today’s educated society even.
The love for Jane Austen is something that I share with my other two guests Misri aunty and Tenzi as my friend is fondly called. The importance of marriage and hooking the right guy in the times of Austen, youth of Mrs Misri and the Tibetan society will become a great topic for conversation. Farha Khan who married quite late as per Indian standards and did so on her own terms as in marrying a younger and lesser established man would, I am sure, throw in interesting opinions and facts.
Also the kind of personalities all these amazing women have will sure make the evening much more fun. Discussion on societal norms, how they vary for men and women, what was it like in 18th century England, 20th century India and the traditional Tibetan society will make for an interesting mélange. The topic of going out to dance which was a must know-how in the English society of the 18th century is sure to come up. Here we would have lot of inputs from Ms Austen who can probably give tips on the etiquettes of ballroom dancing and look up to Farah for teaching us three non-dancers to shake our hips. Tenzi will enlighten us on about the norms of a society that is not really known to us. Mrs Misri who hails from Kashmir and has spent her childhood and youth there will definitely have a lot to contribute here as well. She who has read every single piece by Austen will definitely keep the conversation going on about those days and her motivation.
I would like to invite Jane Austen, my aunty Mrs Misri, a friend Tenzin nangsyal and ace choreographer-cum-director Farah khan. Jane Austen the English novelist whose romantic fiction are social commentaries laced with biting criticism. What attracts me to Jane Austen are the plots of her work which are comic in nature but highlight the dependence of women on marriage to secure a social standing. This interesting a phase in a girl’s life is something that I have been through. The importance of getting married to the right guy of some social standing can not be undermined in today’s educated society even.
The love for Jane Austen is something that I share with my other two guests Misri aunty and Tenzi as my friend is fondly called. The importance of marriage and hooking the right guy in the times of Austen, youth of Mrs Misri and the Tibetan society will become a great topic for conversation. Farha Khan who married quite late as per Indian standards and did so on her own terms as in marrying a younger and lesser established man would, I am sure, throw in interesting opinions and facts.
Also the kind of personalities all these amazing women have will sure make the evening much more fun. Discussion on societal norms, how they vary for men and women, what was it like in 18th century England, 20th century India and the traditional Tibetan society will make for an interesting mélange. The topic of going out to dance which was a must know-how in the English society of the 18th century is sure to come up. Here we would have lot of inputs from Ms Austen who can probably give tips on the etiquettes of ballroom dancing and look up to Farah for teaching us three non-dancers to shake our hips. Tenzi will enlighten us on about the norms of a society that is not really known to us. Mrs Misri who hails from Kashmir and has spent her childhood and youth there will definitely have a lot to contribute here as well. She who has read every single piece by Austen will definitely keep the conversation going on about those days and her motivation.
and then i got bored of writing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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